5.17.2017

FEELING GOOD W/ TOBI


I wanted to chat a little bit about confidence and self love.
Being 23 years old and living in Los Angeles, trying to create a name for yourself in the fashion/lifestyle blogging world has taken a bittersweet toll on me mentally and physically. 
I'm sure almost everyone has felt like this in their life at one point but I wanted to share my story with you guys.

I started "darkmintdaisy" about three and a half to four years ago, and for awhile I was comparing myself to other babes in the industry. (How come I don't have enough followers as them? I've been blogging longer or no one likes my style or I need to post four times a day everyday because everyone else is doing it and etc.) All of these negative feelings start to take over your body and soul and you start to put yourself down. I wanted to get rid of my entire closet because I felt like an outsider with my outfit choices that I would upload on social media. I would scroll through endless amounts of posts on Instagram and just compare myself to others. 

Until one day, I had to snap myself out of it. I needed to stop spreading negativity in my life. Once I stopped comparing myself to others, I felt ALIVE again. I dressed however I felt whenever I felt and posted whatever I felt whenever I felt. Once you find out who you truly are and stop comparing yourself to others, it is an indescribably feeling. Do whatever you want, whenever you want. Don't let anyone stop you from your dreams and most importantly, wear whatever makes YOU feel good babe!

And speaking of wearing whatever makes you feel amazing... One of my favorite pieces in my closet right now is this graphic tee from Tobi.com. I adore the cut out in this top and am obsessed with the fact that you can see the details of the bralette that I paired this outfit with.
Throw on some color tinted shades and ripped jeans and this outfit is EASILY one of my favorite looks, because not only do I feel confident in it but I'm feeling like a badass babe as well.  

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